Charlie dedicated significant leadership, time and energy to Visit Albuquerque serving as a board member and engaged partner for many years. He almost never let a meeting go by without inquiring about “lost business” which became sort of a signature Charlie question and no doubt, underlined that he was paying close attention and had care for making our industry and community better. This was evident in the way he showed up in the world, and he was a vital mentor to so many in the industry including me. Charlie had such a unique sense of humor, and we always enjoyed his clever telegraphs that he authored for many industry roasts and celebrations.

 On a personal note, my family lived in the same neighborhood as Charlie and Kathleen for many years. They watched our kids grow and the Grays definitely supported their fair share of my kids’ school and sports fundraisers for which we were very grateful. My kids fondly remember trick-ot-treating at the Gray’s home and receiving some of Kathleen’s homemade marshmallows.

 Charlie will be deeply missed and fondly remembered! We are grateful for his contributions to our organization, the industry and New Mexico. The Visit Albuquerque team is keeping Kathleen and the entire family in our thoughts.

With gratitude,
Tania Armenta

I relocated to Albuquerque to become the General Manager of the Sheraton Albuquerque Uptown, a hotel that Charlie previously led. It was during this time that I had the privilege of forging a friendship with him. Immediately, I realized that he was not only a mentor but also a true friend. His wisdom, guidance, and unwavering support have been invaluable to me over the past 12 years. Charlie's impact on my professional growth and personal development cannot be overstated.

One of the reasons we bonded so well is because Charlie and I shared similar paths. We had four hotels in common that we both managed or worked at. Additionally, we both had Rhodesian Ridgebacks as dogs that traveled with us from state to state, hotel to hotel. These shared experiences created a strong connection between us.

Charlie, you have been a beacon of inspiration and a role model for all of us in the hotel community. Your dedication to your craft and your commitment to creating a welcoming and exceptional guest experience have left an indelible mark on our industry. Your legacy will continue to shape the way we approach our work and serve our guests.

Beyond your professional achievements, Charlie, your genuine care and concern for others have touched the lives of countless individuals. Your kindness, generosity, and willingness to lend a helping hand have made a lasting impact on our community. You have created a network of support and camaraderie that extends far beyond the walls of any hotel.

Charlie, I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for everything you have taught me. Your wisdom, guidance, and friendship have been invaluable. I am forever grateful for the opportunities you have provided and the lessons you have imparted. You have helped me become a better professional and a better person.

As we bid farewell to Charlie Gray, let us remember the profound impact he has had on our lives and the legacy he leaves behind. May his kindness, wisdom, and passion for hospitality continue to inspire us all. Charlie, thank you for being a guiding light and a true friend. You will always hold a special place in our hearts.

Yours in Hospitality,
Damen Kompanowski

In hospitality he is king! To Albuquerque folks he is an icon. Male, female, young, old, at the top of your game or just starting out we all loved to be recognized by Charlie. The thing is he recognized us all and encouraged us to reach our potential. A smile, a nod this was enough to make us feel good and do better! For these reasons he is legendary.

As a legacy to Charlie let’s strive to do our best, to do a little more than we think we can, to be kind to each other.

Thank you, Charlie, for being my friend. I am better for knowing you. Peace be with you and to your family and friends.

Love, Rebecca Plutino